This beautiful scene depicts part of my English childhood. Created in pastels after a visit to my home town, a dear friend now long gone, gave this to me so I would always remember where I came from and what I loved about the countryside where I spent so much time. The tall oak tree in the center of the fields was one I often climbed in with my best friend. She and I would balance astride a sturdy lower branch, talk about our dreams and the future. These fields were where my mother and I would gather mushrooms early mornings . . . . . . before the dairy cows came out and trampled them.
Much changed over the years before I decided to come to America. We grew up and my best friend became a hair stylist. I went to college and trained to be a secretary, remember them? We had boyfriends and danced in clubs. My mother worked several jobs and we gave up tramping through the damp fields, preferring to sleep a little later before going to work. My dad worked hard too, and my brother became a great tennis player whilst still in school, trained and played mixed doubles with Sue Barker as his partner - Brits reading this know who she is of course!
Growing up in another country, across a wide expanse of water, means your children and grandchildren may not spend a lot of time in your homeland. We took our children to England several times when they were young. Travel was much easier in so many ways. . . . . .or perhaps it seemed that way because we were younger, healthier, and the world was a much different place! They spent time with their grandparents and other family members. They met my school friends, neighbors and their families. We enjoyed English summer days at the beach, some sandy others pebbly, Devon has a selection of both. Outdoor afternoon tea, watching brilliant colored peacocks strut through the orchard gardens was fun. Viewing wild ponies run across the golden gorse smothered ancient landscape of Dartmoor was exciting to city children.
One of my own favorite childhood memories is of summer Sunday afternoon picnics on the banks of the River Dart. The surrounding moor was always a special place. . . . . .and the weather was usually pleasant and cool compared to here in the US southeast. Writing this today in much too hot, close to 100 degrees, and in a severe drought, I have a deep yearning to be back home across the pond.
For me, there really is no place like home. Mine is still across the ocean despite having lived here many more years than there. Off to grab a cold drink and then pull a salad together - too hot to cook, too hot for anything much. Hope your summer days are pleasant.
Devon thatched cottages in Shiphay village where I grew up.
Dearest Mary,
ReplyDeleteThe English Rivièra is indeed cool compared to the Mediterranean Rivièra and even more so, compared to the Southeast where you and I live!
Love the rolling landscape but as you already stated—your memories are from a long time ago and things are not static, they change with time.
Oh, I too long to the summer fields of my childhood but there now are many subdivisions build and that scenery is gone.
Nostalgia gets even more pronounced as we age—it takes its own life.
Yes, it sure was hot this week, we went over 100°F but the humidity was not that high, as you also stated, it is a severe drought for the farmers in the fields.
I've been contemplating to sprinkle the lawn but it is out of question for me to do that and the teenagers that help me water the patio pot plants are not really up to that task. Be it as it is... Hoping for some rain and that is it.
Never would want to go back to The Netherlands to live there as it is way too overpopulated and far too many rules and regulations. Both of us appreciated the freedom and personal freedom we enjoy here compared to Western European countries.
Also medical treatment is easier here, not such an endless waiting list as in the more socialized government countries.
That is an important aspect of our life as we age!
Pieter would never have reached his age while living in The Netherlands due to the long wait. Here he had next day quadruple bypass + stent placed in his neck the next day after being transported by ambulance to be under a top heart surgeon's care. My best friend was stunned that something like that was possible here. They also treat elderly with less urgency back there, most die before ever being scheduled...
Sure, this is not heaven and nowhere on earth we find that! But with all the freedom and possibilities we can create a comfortable life for us.
Personally, I've never had any issues with the heat but do have with cold.
Hoping you manage to stay cool and comfy and just dream about fond memories!
Hugs,
Mariette
Are those attractive thatched cottages still being built today? If not, what sort of residences do young families move to, to raise their children?
ReplyDeleteYour longing comes across painfully clear, dear Mary. Were you never intent on moving back for good (with Bob, of course), or was it simply out of the question for reasons of work etc.?
ReplyDeleteWeather-wise, we've been having the wettest June on record, I believe.
And a drastic drop in temperature from Saturday (33C) to Sunday (21C and lower after more rain all afternoon), July is off to a chilly start today.
What a lovely post, Mary. I can feel your yearning for your homeland, and Devon is such a beautiful county to live in.
ReplyDeleteAs we age we begin remembering the days of our youth and wanting to return to those memories. I have a friend that lives here in Portland and has been dreaming of returning to her childhood place in hawaii. She and her husband are now moving this fall. I will miss her.
ReplyDeleteAnd I told myself I would put my name on the last post and guess what, I didn't. Ugh!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful painting and even more beautiful memories of Devon! Thank you for sharing with us. I don't blame you for yearning to be there, especially when it's so hot where you now live.
ReplyDeleteI feel like I’m right there in the countryside of Devon when I read your post about your homeland💕. Thank you for the beautiful memories. Thinking of you and sweet Bob today 💕. Jeannette
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for this lovely post. Wishing you cooler weather ~ with a few showers thrown in for good measure.
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A beautiful depiction of my own childhood/younger years as well Mary. Life seemed so much simpler then. I'm watching Wimbledon which has also been a constant in my life. It is typical Summer weather here ...... rain, cold then beautiful blue skies and warm sunshine !!!! Hope it cools down for you both ...... sending lots of love XXXX
ReplyDeleteI came to Wales 'for a couple of years maybe'... and that was thirty five years ago ! Home is the North East of England and if the world were different I'd go back on a heartbeat. Home is multi-layered concept...
ReplyDeleteDear Mary,
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this snippet of your childhood memories. Home always tugs at the heart strings. Life did seem simpler then - I wonder if our parents thought so. The painting is beautiful. I hope things cool off soon for you. We arrived home on Friday night and the temperatures have been climbing. I've been trying to get the garden in shape, but can only work for a few hours in the morning. I won't complain, though, as our heat is nothing like yours, and it's been cool here until now.
Take good care.
Devon is a truly beautiful place, I can understand why you would miss it, the coastline is just stunning and the lovely little villages and thatched cottages. It's a favourite holiday haunt, along with Cornwall. And yes, I know Sue Barker ... well not personally, but how cool that your brother played tennis with her!
ReplyDeleteLike you, South Devon was my childhood home and I have so many happy memories of playing in the woods, the fields, on the beaches and wandering the country lanes. Unlike you, I went away to train to be a teacher but I came back after a few years in Surrey. It was always my intention to return to Devon and I don’t regret it!
ReplyDeleteDevon has such variety and yes, it was much more of a simple life back in those days but you can still search out the quieter places; you don’t have to congregate with everyone else!
Devon still has the beauty in its landscape, its rivers, its moorland, the sea and the towns, cities, villages and hamlets that make Devon what it is.
I hope that you and Bob are both keeping well.
Much love…from Devon! 😁
Dear Mary, I do understand that you yearn for this beautiful home countryside!
ReplyDeleteThe picture is very beautiful! And Devon of course too.
In Germany we do have a heatwave too: 30° Celsius - uff, I only serve salad with chickenbreast... and do my walk in the evening)
Many children of my friends went to live in the USA - and it is quite difficult (and now costly too) for my friends to visit their grandchildren . One of the sons of my Hamburgern friend went to the Westcoast, the other to the Eastcoast...
Best wishes to you and your husband! Britta
PS: I just looked up how much 100 degree Fahrenheit are in Celsius - wow, 37,77 degrees - oh no, that is far too much, as 30 degrees are, care good about your health, dear Mary!
ReplyDeleteI love your triptych on your heading. So pretty. I was born and raised in Honolulu and left when I was 28 in 1993. I don't spend time there unless I have a layover. I don't enjoy the crowds, traffic, high expense for accommodations/entertainment/food/rental car on an island with a limited amount of space. I prefer to travel to England. I'm in NC so it's easier/faster for me to travel to Europe. It's funny, I can't wait to get off of Oahu if I'm there but every time I go to England I have a feeling of not wanting to come back to the US.
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