Showing posts with label Birthdays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Birthdays. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 7, 2023

Aging, snail mail, and keeping the homes fires burning.........


As they say, 'age is just a number.'

Just in case you missed the news, here's proof that I really did turn 80 in October. I received many much-appreciated cards, most arriving just before, a few a day or so late, even some on the actual day. No matter how one tries for the latter option, the postal service here, and now obviously across the pond, is totally unreliable. One should mail a card perhaps a month in advance of a special occasion and write a little note on the back of the envelope, such as "To be opened on......and the date." We won't even go into the postage charges these days - let's just say they are exorbitant, and the more they increase, which now is frequently, the service decreases and a lot of mail sometimes never even shows up. Sending mail with monetary enclosures has become a no-no as many are stolen. I had this happen when mailing a paper money Christmas gift to a young family member in England last year. Today, in a local newspaper story, a man was arrested, and is now imprisoned, after 500 pieces of mail containing over $30,000 in checks, gift cards, money orders etc. all stolen from North Carolina residents' mailboxes and Post Office mail boxes, were found in his home!

This unusual card arrived over a week after my birthday. It came from my family in France and although all international mail now goes by air rather than ship, it took 17 days to cross the pond by plane. Of course any fool knows that transatlantic flight takes less than 9 hours from most European airports. Wherever the card went before and after the flight took up the remainder of the time!  I love this card and the fact that 80 is 13 in Scrabble tiles. . . . . . I'm a teenager again!  




If you burn wood in a stove, or on the hearth as we do, you are probably out searching for firewood during these beautiful early November days. We received our annual delivery, a cord of neatly chopped and split oak and hickory wood, last evening, and this morning Bob headed into the back garden to stack the woodpile for the coming winter. Fortunately we had a little wood remaining from last year and last Saturday evening, being a cool one, we had our first fire of the season. 

Changing over to using the fireplace that sat dormant since springtime when the chimney sweep came, is a bit of a palaver. Bob heads into the attic and brings out the fire screen, heavy metal tools, fire resistant hearth mat. Saved newspapers and fire starters fill the old olive basket on the hearth. Chilled rosé wine of summer is now a memory and a glowing bottle of Malbec is opened, poured and swirled. We clink glasses with a toast to the winter evenings ahead. I think this small annual happening can be classed as a memoir for us. It's part of the coming season where warmth and light in the home is important. It brings thoughts of holidays ahead with family and friends. Sometimes we sit by the fire enjoying the patterns in the flames, with a mug of chocolate, perhaps a bowl of homemade soup. . . . . or another glass of warming wine. 

Still in the throes of autumn here in the southeast, the days are warm and long hours of sunshine strong and extremely bright. Now the earlier sunset of daylight savings time changes the garden colors quickly. The leaves are falling and the canopy of trees is taking on a lighter look. The moon is visible in the early morning sky. Birds are returning to the feeders and bird baths, and squirrels look chubby and healthy in their winter fur coats. Winter months can be bleak. Many loathe the cold days and even colder nights. A blazing, crackling wood fire on the hearth is a way to make those times delightful . . . . . . . along with a hot water bottle perhaps.

But that's another story . . . . . . .another memoir!



. . . . . . . . and here it is, Bob's woodpile completed. 
Looking forward to many warm hearthside nights ahead.



Wednesday, October 26, 2022

The years are flying by . . . . . . .


Today is my birthday. The sun didn't shine.
 That's OK though, I feel blessed to have another birthday with a seven in it.
Next time around I might have a different feeling because then I just
 might begin to feel "over the hill."



Yesterday my granddaughter Jasmin had a birthday also.
In my eyes she's still a youngster at twenty six.
We have many things in common which makes me feel good, perhaps 
younger, and she keeps me on my toes.
This evening we will celebrate our birthdays at a very lovely downtown
restaurant. Moroccan chef in an Italian kitchen - been wanting to 
try it for some time, and tonight's the night.
Wine list should be interesting. . . . . and Bob's driving!



Cheers to anyone else celebrating an October birthday, they're always
such fun.


Saturday, July 3, 2021

Rain came, now gone . . . . . . .let's celebrate!



After the intense heat of Thursday a front came through mid-evening
 when we were enjoying a late supper and watching the new season
 of 'Bosch'.
Suddenly things were flying as the trees started swaying violently against
the darkening sky.........plant pots blew over, debris danced on the back
 deck and we dashed out to move the cars back down the driveway
for more protection from falling twigs. Despite recent tree removal we
still have a massive oak which may have to be taken down later!


Sweet chickadee dish to keep little things.
My real Chickadees visiting the front porch were looking very wet.


Rain continued on and off through that night, and yesterday we had 
 heavy showers. No watering required and the plants look perky and happy.

This morning, after a little rumble of distant thunder during the night,
we now have the start of a fabulous weekend of sunshine and low
 humidity, the latter very unusual and welcomed for the Independence
 Day holiday which is usually stifling hot.


This week I found a package of cheese ravioli tucked away in the
 freezer just crying out for a bath in fresh clipped sage from the
 garden and good butter!


My home grown parsley and sage - both so good.


Clipping fresh herbs from the garden makes such a difference in
 cooking - I've never tasted sage this good! 
Simple recipes are wonderful for hot summer days.


A little side of grilled mediterranean vegetables are a nice addition. 
Love these, found at Costco, and keep a jar or two on hand always. 


We'll be home this year for Independence Day - celebrating quietly and
 praying for better days ahead both here and in all parts of the world.
Wishing you a fun holiday weekend with good health, happiness and 
loved ones nearby.

Monday, July 5th our celebrating continues as Bob has another
 birthday. . . . . .and we are promised a sunny day to enjoy cake, 
candles and champagne!

Sunday, July 5, 2020

An auspicious birthday for Bob!





Maybe I should revisit this past hobby - folding pages of vintage books!
These days I only turn pages of books, magazines, grocery flyers etc.

This Independence Day holiday weekend is being spent here at home and
 today is Bob's birthday.
This is a very special Birthday for Bob, his 80th!  Yes, he doesn't
look anywhere near that, and he definitely doesn't act that age.
Most important - and we are so thankful - he is healthy.  He still has so much
 energy and moves like a much younger man. . . . . . and of course he talks a lot, 
about a lot of interesting things, because of his Irish genes!
He is not rocking on the porch yet.
He often amazes me and I wonder if I will always be able to keep up with him.
I could write a book about our long life together, but it would take so many pages
to cram it all in, so many pages to turn. So just take my word for it. . . . . he's 
going to be one awesome octogenarian.
Love you Bob.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOB 🎂
Tuesday: Just a quick edit here.
Bob thanks all you lovely friends for your great birthday wishes.
I thank you too for remembering my special guy. You are the best!

Bob on his 80th with 
Razzy.


Friday, November 1, 2019

London coat tales ---------- and a birthday!


I had another birthday last weekend!  
The numbers are getting high now and one often wonders at this stage of life just
how many more there will be!
More cards, phone calls, greetings, perhaps a gift or two, a lunch out, a cake with no
 candles (who wants to buy that many boxes) and. . . . . . . . well you know, so I won't
 go into negative details. To many in our family, adult birthdays just don't seem to be
that important any longer. I try to remember everyone with at least a card on a 
birthday - no matter how old one is, there's just something special about watching
 for the mail carrier and hoping for some pretty cards with birthday greetings and
 kind words on that special day.

Anyway, life does go on and mine has been really busy since getting back from
the recent trip - more posts coming on that. Just need more hours in my day and
 fewer medical appointments and such which seem to overwhelm at this time of year.


I'm really ready for them!  
COATS. . . . . . .also jackets, scarves, along with boots and enclosed shoes. 
Toss out those flip flops, pack away the linens, store the warm weather
 clothes and footwear.  
I love dressing for winter. Proper coats are my favorite item, despite living in the
 southeast where really chilly weather is scarce during a normal winter season.
I love to throw a light coat over a sweater, a knit dress, sometimes a silky
 blouse, with a trouser, jogging pant, or a calf-length casual skirt.  
Snuggle my toes into loafers, wingtip oxfords, suede sneakers or my tall boots
 and ankle booties and I'm ready to go.


A quick visit into London's Oxford Street on our return to the UK
before coming home, included a little shopping for some 
Marks & Spencer items, plus a quick look around ZARA of course!
I love their coats and ended up buying this cozy wrap coat. . . . . feels
incredibly comfy and is as lightweight as a bathrobe. I'm going to 
enjoy this one as soon as the weather cools.

 Bespoke Ballgown by Christian Siriano

Selfridge's display windows were certainly eye-catching, as they usually are. 
 I didn't have time to take a lot of photos that day, and the crowds were
 unbelievably huge (there was a Brexit march nearby!). Then unexpected
 rain arrived meaning thousands of umbrellas suddenly appeared. . . . . . the
 sidewalks became impassable for a while!




Note, even the ballgown is shown with casual silver sneakers!  
Sneakers, especially black or white, and very clunky designs, were being worn with everything.


Oh London - such an awesome city and, thankfully, still some beautiful
old shops with history and elegance within their walls.


Friday, July 5, 2019

Green and gorgeous . . . . . . . and a Birthday!


Today is special. . . . . 
. . . . .and so is he!

After all the hoopla celebrating America's birthday on Independence Day, another
 birthday rolled around for my dear husband as the fireworks filled the late night sky.  
As a little boy his mom told him the fireworks were to announce his impending arrival
on July 5th!  

HAPPY BIRTHDAY dearest Bob, and here's to many, many more!

Bob enjoying the Thomas Connolly Pub, (1861) Sligo, Ireland, June 2019


Not Ireland, but just as green . . . . .  . .if you plan a visit in springtime. 

Looking through older photos from travels, I came across these taken in Sicily
 in May 2017, reinforcing my great affinity for 'the color green.'
Leaving the coast of the island for the high rolling vineyards of the interior, 
the incredible changes in the landscape were breathtaking.

There will be more posts to come featuring Ireland. . . . . taking a little posting
 break while working on them.
So hot here. . . . .our own green garden patch is struggling, fading by the day.

Sunday, July 3, 2016

Cherry ripe and a birthday coming. . . . . . . . .




Yesterday I made a cherry clafoutis with these wonderful firm and
 flavorful dark red stone fruits.
Yes, it's cherry ripe time! They are stacked upon grocery produce
 shelves in boxes and bags, and are really hard to resist.
These are also excellent for eating fresh.

 This is when I truly wish I lived in the Pacific Northwest where most
 of our cherries are grown, especially in beautiful Washington State.
The Dark Sweet mahogany red variety are the early ones grown
 commercially - large, firm, not too juicy, and with an intense vibrant 
flavor. They keep well and are perfect for this classic French dessert.

I use Ina Garten's clafoutis recipe from her cookbook Barefoot in Paris - it's
 actually for a pear clafoutis (also yummy). I substituted black raspberry
 Chambord liqueur which worked well.

July 5 is Bob's Birthday. He'll be away in his home town
in New Hampshire for his annual baseball & beer few days 
with his older brother. I love that they have made this an annual get
 together and can still have a fun time. We wives used to go too but have
 decided to let the 'boys be boys' while they still can!
Last night for supper this dessert stood in for an early Birthday 'cake', 
and it was delicious!



Saturday, October 24, 2015

Living the French village life. . . . . . . .



This is the medieval village in the Languedoc region where my brother,
 his wife, and my niece have lived for many years. My niece recently
graduated from Glasgow University in Scotland and is now working for a 
well known international company in England. . . . . . I know she must miss
the quiet French village life, at least a little bit.


Caunes is within the medieval area of the Aude Pays Cathare - just 20 mins. 
from Carcassonne, the largest walled city in Europe. An hour south and you 
hit the Mediterranean beaches, and a beautiful 2 hour train trip brings views of the
 Pyrenees mountains, the coastline, and then you arrive in Spain, which we did at
 the end of our trip. I'll have lots to share from Barcelona later.


My family's house is gorgeous, and the garden produces much bounty in the way
 of vegetables which my SIL preserves to stock her large pantry. My brother is 
now quite the farmer I must say, and his wife a really wonderful cook.
These pix were taken two weeks ago and as you can see the tomatoes were still 
coming in and the onions being dug. One evening John dug
 potatoes an hour before preparing dinner - you can imagine the fresh flavor!


As you can see, the weather continued to hold after we left the river boat in 
Provence and headed to Caunes for a few days. After all the wonderful meals
Alison prepared in her beautiful kitchen, and sampling many great wines chosen
 by John, we headed into the vineyards, les Montagnes Noire (the Black Mountains)
 in the distance, and walked for several miles each day. . . . . . you can guess why!



Some views from around the village where a small population of approx. 1400 live
 the true French life. They are surrounded by acres of vineyards, now in their
 Autumn colors following the recent harvest.
Bob and I walked often up and down the narrow streets to the village ramparts,
 checking all the places we'd seen on previous visits, but which remain of great interest.


Also located nearby the village is the great red marble quarry which has supplied
 beautiful stone to build some of France's most amazing landmarks, such as the
 Palace of Versailles.

An annual red marble carving contest in the village produces amazing statues - Bob
 here with a huge bull.

The 8th century Benedictine Abbey, across from the house,
 provides a lovely view from the upper garden level where there is a pool
and many exotic shrubs - even the Morning Glories were still blooming.

Yes, the entrance to the garden from the lane does have have one of 
those wonderful, so European, Fatima's hand door knockers - and I can't begin to
 tell you how many photos I've taken of French doors sporting these knockers all
 around the country on this trip! 

Happy weekend to all my dear readers. We remain so busy here trying to catch
 up with everything after such an extended trip.
 We are also celebrating Birthdays - granddaughter Jasmin turns 19 tomorrow,
 and yours truly will welcome yet another 'golden year' as I do my best to blow out
 seventy two candles on Monday - well hopefully nobody arrives with a cake with
 quite that many - I do want to make seventy three and many, many more!




Sunday, October 26, 2014

A little celebration. . . . . . .


Today it's my turn to have a birthday!
If you were here we could kick up our heels with a little party. 
What fun that would be.


Luncheon of the Boating Party - 1880 - Pierre Auguste Renoir